You have of course heard of “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, but may not have heard of “Love is in the heart of the lover” because no one has bothered to find out or to believe it.
Let me tell you my own experience. I was the youngest child, all pampered and so I took love for granted. Alas it did not last long. As I grew up I realized one did not get loved unconditionally in this 3D world. Our analytical mind, the little “i”as I call it, does not allow anything unconditionally. It must work out the pros and cons, must find a valid reason for allowing it.
Anyway what I want to point out here is that I didn’t know love was not out there. If I could not feel love in my own heart I would not be able to feel either loved or truly love anyone else. I learned this much later. You see, we feel abandoned, devastated even, believing the other did not love us, while the problem was we could not feel loved because we were not vibrating at the frequency of love.
Please remember, frequency of love is the only pre-requisite for creating/manifesting your desire, life of your dreams effortlessly, even instantaneously if you so wished ! You may like to read my book- “i” to “I” : Game of Gods, to know why love is the answer to all our problems.
So then, you must feel love, and to feel love, you must fall in love with your SELF, in your heart.
Do you remember all SELF-HELP books advising you to love yourself? Decades ago when someone advised me to do the same my answer was “What’s so special about me? How can I love myself ?” Of course, this answer was coming from my analytical mind. It was looking for a reason to love myself !
I am grateful to Gladiator, my divine friend, who explained it thus :-
“Your True self loved you into existence. He/she/it chose you. You are special.Made you out of itself. You are perfect, if you were not, you won’t exist. The proof of the love of your True self is that you exist.You are perfect as YOU. Don’t try to be like others. Don’t try to compare yourself with others. Don’t put on the mask to be appreciated by others. You are loved beyond reason. You are loved unconditionally. You are loved beyond the comprehension of your analytical mind. Believe it.”
I hope it helped you to love yourself. You can practice breathing slowly, deeply through your heart to open it. There is a good meditation called “A heart in full bloom” by Dr. Joe Dispenza on YouTube.https://youtu.be/Sbb1iOyPGa4?si=AJPyy.9dmnGVtqcim.
So, friends, remember “Love is in the heart of the lover”. Feel love in your heart. Be the lover by vibrating at the frequency of love, the most elevated of all emotions, full of joy !